{"id":3178,"date":"2021-09-27T02:54:41","date_gmt":"2021-09-27T02:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/?p=3178"},"modified":"2021-09-29T02:56:58","modified_gmt":"2021-09-29T02:56:58","slug":"take-the-blame-and-move-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/2021\/09\/27\/take-the-blame-and-move-on\/","title":{"rendered":"TAKE THE BLAME AND MOVE ON ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gen 3:11 And He said, &#8220;Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?&#8221; Gen 3:12 Then the man said, &#8220;The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>To blame is to think or say that someone or something did something wrong or is responsible for something bad happening. Blame game is a situation in which people try to blame each other for something bad that has happened. ( Cambridge Advanced Learners Dictionary)<\/p>\n<p>In the above scenario, Adam refused to take full responsibility. First , he blamed God as the prime cause because he probably thought that if God had not given to him Eve , possibly he would not have eaten the fruit. Secondly, he blamed Eve for giving him the fruit. What was required was a simple admission of the wrong and find a way of &#8221; righting &#8221; the wrong.<\/p>\n<p> Blame game is a popular game and a destructive game.<br \/>\n It never heals &#8211; it always hurts.<br \/>\n It never repairs relationships.<br \/>\n It only destroys relationships.<br \/>\n It never unites &#8211; it only divides<br \/>\n It never builds &#8211; it always tears apart.<br \/>\n It never solves a problem.<br \/>\n It only compounds the problem.<br \/>\n( Dr Harold L. White )<\/p>\n<p>Further readings:<br \/>\nGen 3:13<br \/>\nJoh 9:1-3<br \/>\n1Joh 1:9<\/p>\n<p>\ud83d\ude4fBlessed Week\ud83d\ude4f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gen 3:11 And He said, &#8220;Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?&#8221; Gen 3:12 Then the man said, &#8220;The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.&#8221; To blame is&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3179,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3178"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3178"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3178\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3180,"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3178\/revisions\/3180"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3178"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3178"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pastoralcarecenter.org\/newsletter\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3178"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}